Showing posts with label emotional freedom. Show all posts
Showing posts with label emotional freedom. Show all posts

Tuesday, December 27, 2022

Memoir delivered with humor to ease the pain & a heart full of forgiveness that brings hope

Shake that Cream: Battling Gods and Monsters in the Backwoods of East Texas by Ellen Black weaves the warp and weft threads of her past into a tapestry depicting an abusive childhood growing up in a dysfunctional household that joined Herbert W. Armstrong’s Worldwide Church of God cult in the late 1950s as well as her lifelong quest to escape to normal.


 

Black chronicles events growing up in small-town Texas, attending Herbert W’s church and school. As a bonus negative, her father also taught at the school and knew her every move. Nowhere in her childhood did she receive affirmation, encouragement, or love. Yet, while she longed for it and lived in a sea of disappointment, she hung on to hope that somehow eventually her parents would love her.

When she goes away to college and graduates, she finally escapes the clutches of the church and her parents, but does she really? What happens when her racist parents learn she has a bi-racial child outside of marriage? They travel to New York City to kidnap her baby daughter and in a blink, the nightmare stands at her door again.

Shake that Cream is a moving, highly readable, firsthand account of what Black underwent being raised in the Worldwide Church of God cult. She articulates how Armstrong influenced her parents and so many others. While the details are disturbing, even as Black describes the abuse she and her brother suffered, this enthralling and harrowing memoir carries the reader on a journey of hope through a quagmire of false Christian doctrines, control, abuse, lies, anger, and more. Shake that Cream masterfully weaves Ellen’s story in a way that lays out her dire situation but doesn’t get mired in the negative. She tells her story from the first-person point of view and delivers it with enough humor to help ease the pain, and a heart full of forgiveness that brings hope. She not only escaped but survived with her sense of self intact and the toxic cycle broken.

I recommend Shake that Cream to the cult curious, those interested in secret societies, and false religions, and those trying to learn more about the Worldwide Church of God. I also recommend it to other survivors who have grown up with such physical and emotional pain and are trying to find their way to their own new normal. I award this book a strong four stars.

 

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Monday, August 24, 2009

What Is an Energy Vampire?


Today's Book Hookup guest is Dr. Judith Orloff author of:

Emotional Freedom: Liberate Yourself From Negative Emotions and Transform Your Life

Book Summary -

New York Times and Wall Street Journal Bestseller!

Emotional Freedom
by Judith Orloff, MD

A Guide to Staying Brave and Positive During Stressful Times

National bestselling author Judith Orloff MD presents new solutions for dealing with emotions in our hyper-tense world. She invites you to take a remarkable journey, one that leads to happiness, serenity, and a mastery over negativity that pervades daily life. You possess the ability to liberate yourself from worry, anger, and fear. True emotional freedom is closer than you think.


What is an Energy Vampire?

by Judith Orloff MD


Relationships are always an energy exchange. To stay feeling our best, we must ask ourselves: Who gives us energy? Who saps it? It's important to be surrounded by supportive, heart-centered people who make us feel safe and secure. It's equally important to pinpoint the energy vampires, who, whether they intend to or not, leech our energy.

Positive energy in others can be rejuvenative. For instance, you're nervous about a job interview, but the minute you meet your prospective boss you relax. He's so calm and welcoming, you calm down too. Or perhaps you have a good friend around whom you always feel loved. These are energy-givers, those we must gravitate towards.

In contrast, energy vampires exude negative energy that drains. Vampires range from the intentionally malicious ones to those who are oblivious to their effect. Some are overbearing and obnoxious; others are friendly and charming. For example, you're at a party talking to a perfectly nice person, but suddenly you're nauseous or weak. Or how about the co-worker who drones on about how she broke up with her boyfriend for the tenth time? Eventually, she feels better, but you're spent. The bottom line is that on a subtle energy level these people suck you dry.

Exercise: Take an inventory of people in your life who give energy, and people who drain. Specifically identify the energy vampires, and begin to evaluate ones you'd like to limit contact with or eliminate. Plan at least one complete afternoon with people who give off positive energy and avoid drainers. Notice how this beneficially affects their physical and emotional well-being.

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About Judith Orloff
Judith Orloff MD, an Assistant Clinical Professor of Psychiatry at UCLA and intuition expert, is author of the new book Emotional Freedom: Liberate Yourself From Negative Emotions and Transform Your Life (Harmony Books, 2009) Her other bestsellers are Positive Energy, Intuitive Healing, and Second Sight. Dr. Orloff synthesizes the pearls of traditional medicine with cutting edge knowledge of intuition and energy medicine. She passionately believes that the future of medicine involves integrating all this wisdom to achieve emotional freedom and total wellness. www.drjudithorloff.com


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